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Why being alone is ok

  • Writer: Xella
    Xella
  • May 22
  • 3 min read

Updated: May 23




In this post I am going to talk about why it is ok to be alone. Many people tend to use others to run away from their own problems and never want to face them on their own. Being alone taught me how to be one with myself, all of me not just the business representative everyone loves to display to the world. Alone with the good, alone with the bad, alone with all of the parts of me I choose to keep hidden to the world. I've found peace in being alone because I realized one thing, when I am back alone by myself, I am one with the source god or creator whatever you call it. It keeps me focused on all desires I wish to pursue in this physical reality but also helps me be one with the reality that is underneath as well. Wow life is really wild when you're content with being yourself so much to the point where all desires flow effortlessly to you without you even lifting a finger! I always put me first and maybe I'm selfish for that, but I genuinely believe that because I'm in love with life so much I see the beauty and opportunity just by simply showing your face in areas of desire. Being at the mall today editing some songs on ILYBIDC I noticed how crowds start to form whenever I be still without no fuck to give about the outside world. I guess not giving a fuck about having everything completely perfect ends up bringing you the perfection and what you would need in that time in place. Trying to make life perfect isn't wrong in anyway, it's a problem when you let that stop you from being confident in who you really are. Everything is love if you look at life without a sense of scarcity. Looking at life from the lens of abundance is beautiful to me because I can see how any opportunity that was needed would definitely happen in my favor. I love life and its perfect imperfections. I love when I'm clowned on about my socks or how I have a whole bunch of hair, glasses and look like LIL Tecca's cousin. Why? Because at the end of the day I love all of me and your hate is love in disguise loll. Life isn't supposed to be perfect because life is perfect already, but we have this misconception of what perfect looks like from God’s point of view. In the creators' eyes, it simply watches in awe as he sees his children being in love with life and loves to give power to any seed that is planted in the mind. Like I said Being alone with yourself is basically being one with the source because there is no one you can hide from, no one you can run to. Just you and your thoughts. Lol it's kind of wild that meditation isn't a common thing in society, but at the same time I'm glad because it's better to the ones that know and understand it completely then to have a rookie or someone that never does any of that at all to calm their mind, they'll be diving into a new universe way too soon and wanna stay down to earth forever lol. I'll talk about this another time, but I will say it in the next video until next time!!

 
 
 

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